It's All About You, Isn't It?

They asked a bunch of psychologists "What's the one nagging thing you still don't understand about yourself, " and, surprisingly, many of them answered.
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Our other disagreement was about forgiveness. I believe there are unforgivable actions – child abuse, rape, holocausts, torture are examples. The Dalai Lama says he forgives but does not forget. In my view, since he believes such people will be reincarnated in an undesirable form, he doesn’t need to forgive them.